In which she shares a themed coordinate…



It’s a bit after Halloween now, but I thought I’d share my coordinate from a few weeks ago anyway! My community had a super lush vampire themed meet, complete with gothic decor, lots of tasty food, and so many lovely coordinates! I thought I’d take the theme to a bit of the opposite direction and make a vampire hunter outfit!

  • Jacket, Skirt, Accessories: Handmade
  • Necklace: Moss Marchen
  • Tights: Target
  • Boots: Thrifted
  • Wig: Arda Wigs

I had a lot of inspirations for this one, mainly Castlevania character designs, military lolita, and Vampire Hunter D! I also made a lot of accessories, for this, including a bible purse, holy water, and carving a stake!

The meet was so fun, and I was really pleased with my look overall, especially given that so much of it was handmade! I adore themed meetups and I’m headed to a Harry Potter one this weekend, so look forward to photos from that!


In which she’s back again…



Long time no see! Someone asked me about my blog the other day and it really got me thinking. I don’t know if blogging really has that much of a place in lolita anymore, but I also feel like I have things to say again. Lolita has had such a weird, profound, and lasting impact on my life for whatever reason, and every time I stray away a little bit, I always come back to it.


I’m not a lifestyle lolita anymore. I’m not really even a sometimes lolita, I’m more of an events and fancy occasions and sometimes-when-I-feel-guilty-about-my-closet-full-of-ruffles lolita. But I still pull my dressses out when I’m feeling really blue, or if the situation calls for it. I still run panels at local cons. I still make, and thrift, and buy second-hand. I still wear more casually and nerdy than some lolitas might think I should.


My community is actually pretty dang active! Thanks to a some very well put-together girls we regularly have some beautiful meetups with things like door prizes and themes! Honestly, I never thought I’d go to a fancy event like that, which seems silly now. But I appreciate those sorts of efforts so much, and seeing how much the community has grown is really touching to me.


I’ve got some stories to tell, and coordinates to share, and I’m sure some rants left up my sleeve. Oh, and I’ll track down some really good WTFs of the Week too, those were always some of my favorites! So uh…welcome back I guess. I’m happy to be here!



In which she has been a lolita for a very long time…


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So I’ve discovered that this year is my 10th Lolita Anniversary! I’ve seen a lot of styles come and go, our method of community organization almost completely change, and I’ve worn a lot of outfits. I helped to start a community which is still going strong and I’ve made a lot of lovely friends. I’ve hosted panels, organized meet ups, made clothing, and blogged for quite a while.

In honor, I thought I would do a couple of timeline posts. Some years I have a lot of photos and information and some years I don’t. But I thought it would be a nice way for me to reflect and nice little walk through memory lane for lolitas who have been around for as long as I have! I think it’ll also probably be pretty interesting for the newer lolitas who don’t know a whole lot about what lolita used to be like!

To kick off, I’m starting with 2005-2008! These are the years I have the least amount of photos and such.

Back when I started in 2005 lolita was a very different fashion. The style we now refer to as old school still reigned supreme and sweet was really starting to come into it’s own. The EGL LJ community was the main resource for information and I posted a couple of these to the community with very nice responses! It was before
EGL was really known for it’s very critical attitude.

The picture with the strawberry skirt is I think my first official lolita outfit, and really considering a lot of first outfits around that time it definitely wasn’t the worst I could have worn!


I’m really lacking in photos for 2006! It was a pretty big year for the English-speaking lolita community, as Kamikaze Girls was released this year. The fashion started to get a bit more structured this year, and the original Lolita Handbook was posted to LJ this year as well! EGL started to get a bit more serious, which is probably why I didn’t take as many pictures. I was probably afraid to post!

I still really like the dino dress, as silly as it is. It was a pretty nice coord too, if I remember correctly. The black outfit is also pretty nice. Good job, 18 year old Megan!

I literally have nothing for 2007! It was my first year of college and it was pretty rough so I don’t remember wearing my full-out frills very often. I also didn’t have my own camera, digital cameras were still pretty expensive at the time. Oh how things have changed!


One lone outfit for 2008! Not a great one either I’m afraid. 2008 was the year that OTT sweet started becoming a thing and I got a little bit lost in my fashion taste. I was pretty standardly a sweet lolita at this point, so when sweet lolita became a different thing it was a little confusing.

I hope you all enjoyed this little stroll through memory lane, I’ll be doing a couple more posts like this as kind of an extended timeline, and as a better way to hold on to these photos (a lot of them were collecting dust in an old photobucket album!)


In which she catches up a little…


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This last year was definitely not my proudest for blogging, or lolita for that matter! I wasn’t able to make it to a lot of meetups and after I left my job that I wore lolita to once a week I kind of fell off the horse as far as wearing it casually. I’ve been missing it a lot lately though, so I’m going to try and do at least a post a month this year and wear lolita much more often! Here’s a couple of outfits to get the year started off right:


  • JSK: Baby, Bag
  • Socks: Innocent World
  • Shoes, Blouse, Bloomers, Wristcuffs: Bodyline
  • Crown: Handmade

I kicked off the year with Ichibancon, and I had a great time this year! I haven’t been in a few years so it’s grown quite a bit. I went to the tea party, which had a royal theme, and it was a lot of fun!


We had a very lucky table, and 3 of us won prizes for our coordinates! I’m very excited to try out some coords with my new accessories and I’ve already used the awesome mug :D


  • OP: Emily Temple Cute
  • Headband & Necklace: Sweet Mildred
  • Tights: Sock Dreams
  • Cardigan: Forever 21 (dyed by me!)
  • Shoes: Bodyline
  • Purse: Vintage

In keeping with my efforts to wear lolita more often, I wore this just to run some errands. It was nice to get back to wearing lolita casually, now I just need to keep it up!


I love love LOVE this necklace from Sweet Mildred. I can’t believe I never thought to wear it with this OP, it matches really well!

IMG_3824And a little print photo for good measure. Gotta love Pippi!


In which she shares a Bodyline haul…


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So recently Bodyline had a shoe sale (it’s actually still going on!) And I’ve been needing a few basics shoe-wise for a while so I jumped on the deal and bought 3 whole pairs of shoes and threw in a couple of clothing pieces for good measure.

I actually went with all shoes I already own in different colors. Kind of boring, I guess, but I know that I like these styles and that they’re comfortable enough for convention/meetup wear so I went with what I know.


First off, my order came in a box! I’ve never seen one of these, so I was quite surprised.


Here’s a peek inside. Yup, shoe boxes!


Very impressive.


First up is a pair of SHOES272! I own these in cream and I love them. Just the right heel height and width to be elegant but comfortable.


I needed pink shoes so bad! I’ve had my old ones since my very first Bodyline order way back when and they were definitely getting worn out. Plus, they were so tall that they weren’t really working for me for more walking-heavy occasions. This pair of SHOES251 is just perfect for that. I’ve got these in black and I can comfortably fit some insoles in them for the ultimate comfy lolita convention shoes.


I was on the fence about these because I didn’t really need them in the same way that I was sorely lacking in brown and pink shoes, but I just couldn’t resist them. Even if they did make my shipping price double. These are SHOES194, and I’ve got a pair of them in red. Like my red ones, I plan on chopping off the straps. I haven’t had black RHS in so long, I’m very excited to coordinate some old school looks with them!


Along with shoes I picked up a few clothing things. These wristcuffs were for a friend so I just kept them in the packaging.


I grabbed a cute pink cutsew to wear with skirts!


Here it is out of the packaging. This is L410 and it’s in their blouse section but trust me, it’s a cutsew. The fabric is a nice lightweight knit, very soft! The lace is nice enough and the fit range is probably much bigger than the site suggests.


Here’s a shot of the back! Just a little corset lacing. I can tell this will be nice and comfy for more casual outfits. I’ll have to try it under a JSK at some point, I’m not sure how it will look.


I also grabbed a cute minty skirt!


This is their Cinderella Bunny print, L482 is the number. It’s cute! Even when in dire need of a steam. The print has a soft look to it and the designs are really sweet. Little prince bunny is my favorite.

Overall I’m very happy with my order. The shoes I already knew what to expect basically, but the sale prices were really nice and allowed me to fix up my shoe closet immensely. Plus some inexpensive cute pieces that I think will work into my wardrobe very well!


In which she shares a few outfits and an announcement…


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It’s been so long! I’m so sorry. I got swept up in a huge amount of sewing for Dragoncon and life has been really hectic. So here I am! Making a post!

I haven’t been wearing lolita super often for the past few months just because it’s been so hot. I’m really enjoying the cooling temperatures around here. I do have a few outfits from the past little while to share though. I don’t remember dates for all of these, but I do remember what order they went in.

  • IMG_2813OP: Emily Temple Cute
  • Socks: Innocent World
  • Bag: Baby
  • Shoes: Bodyline
  • Bow: Makelovely Designs

An old school coordinate! I love these socks. I really want some in every color now.


I wore this for a nice meetup of antiquing and food. It was really fun! We pretty much all wore black ironically, despite the blazing summer sun. I finally got around to finishing this JSK, I’ve been sitting on the fabric for a little while now. I’m super happy with how it turned out, but I’ll have to get better pictures. It’s hard to see the details with all that floral!


Just a bit of a fall outfit for one of our first cool days in a loooong time! I love this vest, it matches so many things.

The other thing I have to post about is the opening of my shop! For now I’m planning on selling mostly accessories, and currently it’s mostly full of bows and headbands for your browsing pleasure.

I’ll definitely be posting more often now that the weather’s a bit cooler! I’ve got a Halloween outfit already in the works for a meetup in early November. I hope you all are doing well!


In which she shares some Animazement fun…


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Whew, it’s been a little while! I’ve been so preoccupied with cosplay sewing I haven’t had much free time. But for now things have calmed down a little bit, and I can share some of the fun I had at Animazement.



First things first! Thank you to everyone who attended my panel with my good friend Heather, Lolita on a Budget! If you’re interested in downloading the presentation just click here! It’s got a lot of good info, and I think most of it is pretty self explanatory.

Onto some outfits!


        • Skirt: Meta
        • Tights: Forever 21
        • Bonnet, Cutsew, Hair Clips, Most of the Jewelry, Sash & Rosette: Handmade
        • Shoes: Payless (painted by me)
        • Headband: Sweet Mildred
        • Necklace: Angelic Pretty
        • Bag & Underskirt: Offbrand

I like to call this my “Squirrel Princess” coordinate! When I first got my Squirrels with Typewriters skirt I had the silly idea to do a really fancy coordinate with it, and I figured a convention is as good a time as any to make a silly fancy coord!



Here’s my head stuff! Yup. Those are squirrels. I bought some little squirrel figures from Amazon (they’re Schleich if anyone is interested in putting small animals on your head) and attached them to hair clips.


I am particularly proud of my rosette. they’re very fun to make, and I found this fabulous fancy scrapbooking sticker of a typewriter for the center. The sash is just a few ribbons and some lace sew together.


And jewelry! I found some typewriter keys also in the scrapbooking section, so I made a ring (“s” for squirrel!) and a bracelet (it says “meta”) and I put a little squirrel charm on there too, for good measure.

Altogether, I think it came out wonderfully! The little details make it extra silly but aren’t noticeable right off the bat, so it’s not to OTT.


          • JSK, Bag: Baby
          • Socks, Parasol: Innocent World
          • Blouse, Wristcuffs, Bloomers, Headdress: Bodyline
          • Shoes: E-bay

This is the outfit I wore on Sunday, super old school! I’ve been piecing this one together for a little while. Slowly but surely I’m accumulating more and more old school, it feels like dressing like the lolita I wanted to be when I first started. I should have gotten a better shot of these shoes, they’re HUGE! To be honest, I wore flats most of the day, these were just too uncomfortable after 2 days of con. But they’re amazing for pictures! They make me as tall as my boyfriend haha.


And for good measure, here’s the cosplay sewing I was slaving over! Tomoyo and Sakura from Card Captor Sakura! These are artbook outfits, we wanted something very matchy-matchy. I’m so pleased with how they came out.

Things are calm for a little while now, but I’m starting sewing plans for Dragon Con so it’ll still be busy around here!


In which she shares a few recent outfits…


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I haven’t been wearing lolita as much as I would like lately, but I do have a few outfits to share!

Daily Outfit April 16, 2014:



  • Shirt: Tee Fury
  • Skirt: Meta
  • Tights & Necklace: Forever 21
  • Shoes: Bodyline
  • Bag: Vintage
  • Bracelets & Hair Clips: Claires
  • Belt: Amazon

A nerdy casual coordinate for dinner out with friends! I would have liked a little something more substantial for my hair, but I don’t really have much like that in cream. I should make myself a hair bow.

Daily Outfit April 19, 2014:



  • JSK & Bow: Baby
  • Blouse & Socks: Bodyline
  • Shoes: Payless
  • Parasol: Innocent World

Something cute for a picnic on a nice spring day! I wore some flats so I could slip them off easily while sitting on the ground, and a lighter petticoat for the same reason. It worked out well, and we had a lovely time!


Daily Outfit April 26, 2014:



  • OP: Meta
  • Tights: Sock Dreams
  • Shoes: Bodyline
  • Bonnet: Handmade

I got this OP a little while ago from Lace Market, it’s an old Meta piece and I just love it to bits! I’ve been very fond of old school pieces recently, and this one is my new favorite. It’s a lovely shade of spring green, and the giant collar is just too pretty. I made the bonnet out of a straw hat to match, I was really excited to find ribbon in the perfect shade of green. This was for my local comm’s Easter meetup, which was so much fun! There were a lot of lolitas and it was so good to catch up with those I knew and get to know some that I didn’t! I was also super lucky, I got some really awesome prizes for finding a sparkly egg and in the raffle. All around, it was a great day!

I’m hoping to get a chance to wear lolita more often in the next few weeks, and I’m most looking forward to Animazement later this month! I’ve got a costume planned, and I’m working on pulling together some lolita outfits as well. I’m also pleased to say that I’m hosting a panel with my good friend Heather! We’re running a panel about being a lolita on a budget on Sunday at 1 pm. We’re ironing out the details on our presentation now, it should be great!


In which she shares a casual outfit for a quiet day…


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The Lolita Blog Carnival prompt for this week was “A Casual Outfit for a Quiet Day.” I really liked this one so I decided to shoot a little video of some of my everyday activities.

Here’s a quick outfit rundown for the curious:

  • JSK & Shoes: Bodyline
  • Cardigan & Tights: Target
  • Bow: Handmade

This is the sort of outfit I’d wear while running errands and such too, it’s comfortable (full back shirring, a loose cardigan, and flats) and all offbrand, so I won’t feel as bad if I get something on it.

Check out the other lovely blogs that have done this post:

Northern Star Beyond Kawaii ♥ Whimsical Adventures of Me ♥ Elegant Poupee

In which she shares an outfit and some con swag…


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Things have been crazy for me these past couple of weeks. I’m in the midst of switching to a new job right now so things have been pretty hectic. I had heard about a small con in my area, Triad Anime Con, and decided last weekend that it would be a nice day trip to see some friends and shop a little and enjoy the general con atmosphere.

Daily Outfit March 14, 2014:



  • JSK: Handmade
  • Blouse: Meta
  • Bow: Baby
  • Shoes: Bodyline
  • Tights: Sock Dreams
  • Crown & Trunk: Hobby Lobby
  • Necklace: Charming Charlie

This was my outfit for the day! I was going for kind of a woodland princess look, I’m pretty happy with it! Plus, my outfit matched the hotel’s decor, so that’s a nice bonus.

triadswagI also picked up a few things! The beautiful brooch on the top left is from Victoria’s Clockwork Emporium! I have a few things from her now and they’re all lovely. I thought it would be perfect for a little embellishment on classic looks. The other two are from a shop I didn’t catch the name of! I couldn’t resist the little 1-up mushrooms, too cute! Also the ring glows in the dark! So cool.



I also picked up two prints from Magical Tea Time! I love her creepy/cute artwork and I was pretty indecisive about which piece I liked best. I need to find some fancy frames to put these on my wall in!

It was a nice little con! I’ll probably go for a day trip again next year.